💖girl diaries. thoughts. 💖 @2ndAde

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💖girl diaries. thoughts. 💖 @2ndAde

13 hours ago

@HESTWlCK Yh coz it ain’t for everyone

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✩𝔞𝔫𝔤𝔢𝔩✩ @HESTWlCK

a day ago

stop letting the algorithm and people that couldn’t even walk in your shoes for 5 minutes determine what your reality represents and attach labels to you based on how you cope through life especially if you’re trying to do better for yourself. Please 🌸

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baeha 🪐 @jovialroots

4 days ago

Stop taking those who are operating out of control and fear seriously.. life will get better

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3 days ago

I think over intellectualising bad behaviour makes you explain away so many red flags

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danisha carter @danishacarterr

3 days ago

as you should. traitors are killed before enemies for a reason; they’re infinitely more dangerous. people who care about you won’t want to spend time with people who have caused you harm.

Shayeanna @Shayeanna

4 days ago

I avoid people who are close to people that have done me dirty

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James @RouteJamsey6

4 days ago

@bluewmist As long as it’s direct, sure. Throwing rocks from behind a wall where they can’t see you isn’t accountability, that’s an actual attack.

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The_Narc_Decoder @NarcDecoder

4 days ago

A narcissist thinks the apology is the prize. They sit on it. Withhold it. Leave it so long they assume that whenever they finally hand it over, you'll still be standing where they left you, waiting. But this is what they miss. While they were busy treating the apology like leverage, you were healing without it. You named what happened. You got distance. You rebuilt. By the time they show up with the words they think you've been desperate for, the words have no value left. Not because you're bitter. Because you already did the work they were never going to do for you. A late apology that asks for something isn't repair. It's a door they want reopened on their terms. You're allowed to look at it and feel nothing. That's not coldness. That's a finished wound. 🫂 ❤️

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4 days ago

I think a lot of people need to learn to become comfortable with the fact that yes, you can actually have a perfectly valid & legitimate reason for doing something AND your actions can still be fucked up & harmful to others. Like those two things are not mutually exclusive.

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The_Narc_Decoder @NarcDecoder

4 days ago

I've was pushed to the edge mentally by a narcissist while he waited for me to finally snap, then he used that breakdown as proof that I was always unstable. He created the crisis then blamed me for reacting 😈 👿

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3 days ago

@HESTWlCK You’re welcome

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Big Bell @Bellfera123

4 days ago

I am not living my life for your comfort or your comprehension. If the way I handle my own pain makes you uncomfortable, that is not a call to action for me that's information about you. I don't owe anyone a version of my healing that is easier to watch.

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Bellfera 🦋🦋🦋 @bellfera

6 days ago

@Bellfera123 People always forget how the treated you and always complain about your reaction.

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Big Bell @Bellfera123

7 days ago

I'm not toxic. I'm reactive. There's a person somewhere calling me difficult, and they're leaving out the part where they pushed every boundary I set, ignored every signal I gave, and then acted shocked when I finally stopped being gentle about it.

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Big Bell @Bellfera123

5 days ago

People talk about physical abuse like it's the only kind that leaves marks. But emotional abuse rewires how you think. Financial abuse traps you in place. Spiritual abuse makes you doubt your own soul.

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Big Bell @Bellfera123

4 days ago

People love to have loud opinions about toxic situations they've never had to survive. It's easy to say "cut them off" when you're not the one who built a life with that person.When you're not the one who remembers who they were before things got dark. Real love even love for the

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4 days ago

@HESTWlCK accountable whilst also being understanding.

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4 days ago

@HESTWlCK That’s great that you’re realising this, just know that you should give yourself grace as well for acting that way because you didn’t have the level of intelligence and knowledge you did at the time like you do now. And I don’t feel like anyone has told you and held you

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4 days ago

@HESTWlCK He may have but that doesn’t mean it excuses any potential harm he did. He could’ve wanted the best for you but still harmed you in ways that made you unappreciative of him. Obviously be grateful for the love he gives you but don’t feel like you have to be.

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4 days ago

@HESTWlCK but don’t try to beat yourself up about it. I think with you and many other 12H placements we require safety like emotional and inner safety before external material safety we want that more or me at least so I can see why you feel that way

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4 days ago

@HESTWlCK I think that whilst he did show love through acts of service you can’t deny the emotional hurt he’s given you too, and the ways he didn’t make you feel loved. He might’ve been trying to show his care and love through acts of service and it’s good that you’re aware