FinDaddy Joe The Mind Manipulator @FindaddyJ

@gaggedboi101 If you can believe it one of my subs neither got it, nor (and I feel he must have been living under a rock for 40 years) knew of Club Tropicana!

🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶 Let me drain you to My taste Your wallet has a smiling face! Pour amyl on your socks! No strangers take you by the hand They are laughing hard you understand! As keys turn in your locks! Club Drainyouharder drinks aren’t free! Locks and diapeys there's enough for everyone! You realise you’re no longer free! Don’t you worry, you can send now! 🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵🎶🎶🎵

@gaggedboi101 Also the original post should be read to the tune of Whams Iconic ‘Club Tropicana’.

@gaggedboi101 I’m sure there are many who would agree with that statement! I wonder if anyone has combined the two? Disclaimer: I am not suggesting anyone do that!

@gaggedboi101 Think of it as like Olbas Oil! It has fine medicinal qualities!

@Juneboa1 Interesting take, thank you so much for sharing!

Musings that likely gonna piss some people off: In a purely online D/s dynamic, can a sub actually ‘cheat’ on their Dom/me? 🤔 Some may argue it’s just words on a screen, no bodies touching, no real relationship. Others feel strongly that if you negotiated exclusivity, ownership, or rules, and they’re secretly submitting, sexting, or building dynamics with other people, that’s a deliberate breach of trust and consent. The part that actually matters: Does the ‘online’ label magically erase the emotional weight, the power exchange, or the agreements you both made? Or are we just pretending it’s all disposable fantasy so we don’t have to take responsibility? Be honest. Master, Mistress, submissive, S/switch what’s your actual line? Drop your take below. No safe answers. I’m genuinely intrigued, I had a couple of convos with subs over the last few days, and have also seen a few posts.

@Footadoration Yes I would agree with you on that, especially if it was never discussed again outside of that ‘play’ scene.

@boots_sub I agree, entering into an arrangement only to break it is certainly just killing your own fantasy for sure!

@AnteroKumpu @badlad97d Confession is good for the soul! And yes then suitable correction and if necessary reparations can be sought!

I tend to lean towards that myself. Whilst I accept and support subs rights to utilise different Superiors (just as one may shop at Tesco one day and Sainsbury the next) I do think if it has been a long standing dynamic there should be open communication or it feels like a poor show!

@badlad97d I can see how that might add an extra layer of thrill to the illicit activities!

@BabyE_diaperboy I must admit this was very fun, and did bring a (admittedly wicked) smile to my face! 😂

Anyone would think I had insisted upon something far more extreme than the mere act of eating dog food! We compromised on the big plug, to be known as Perro Grande. Never let it be said that I don’t set ‘stretching’ goals 🤭

3:17 a.m. Your eyes snap open. Heart racing. Body restless and aching. Your hand moves by instinct… but you stop. You’re not allowed to touch without permission. This is precisely why denial keeps so many subs (subs just like you 🤭) awake at night. My control doesn’t end when the lights go out. Everything you’ve been denied during the day stays with you, building until sleep feels impossible. Your mind won’t quiet. Your body stays needy, waiting for that one word that says it’s okay. It’s the ultimate power exchange knowing I don’t just own your pleasure. I very much own your rest too. And you are achingly hyper aware of it! 🤭 It’s happening again isn’t it puppy… I know so difficult… Shhhh… Lying there right now, wide awake and struggling… you’re not alone, just another needy slave wracked with an urge they cannot ignore, How long has it been since you had permission to touch? And how badly do you need it tonight?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ You know how to ask Me, I might say yes, or…..well 🤭

Nah apart from being fun and freeing, and in many cases quite lucrative for those involved, it is a necessary safety valve for the millions in our slightly poisoned society who have small to no chance of obtaining sex, this includes people in dead bedroom marriages or relationships, those not deemed attractive enough by society and or other marginalised groups.

@gaggedboi101 I thought this was definitely one of my more ingenious posts 😂

🌴✨ TEMPTATION ‘CRYLAND’ IS NOW OPEN FOR BUSINESS ✨🌴 Attention all weak little wallets and professional crybabies 💸😭 Pack your bags (and your entire paycheck) because you’re about to book a one-way trip to Temptation Cryland, the only vacation spot where the ‘all-inclusive’ package means I take everything and you get to cry about it later (at length, dramatically, pathetically). Here’s what’s waiting for you in Cryland: • Beaches made of your dried-up tears (they’re very sparkly after I drain you). • Local wildlife includes feral paypigs who roam around whispering “just one more send Dominus”. • The national anthem is the sound of your bank app notification going off at 3 a.m. (and just for lols a recording of one of my more amusing subs shouting “you fucking liar!” IYKYK 😂). • Souvenir shop sells nothing but empty wallets and “I sent my rent money” keychains. Warning: Side effects of visiting Temptation Cryland include: • Uncontrollable tribute urges. • Sudden inability to say the word “no”. • A strange new diet that consists entirely of instant noodles and regret (And Colmans English Mustard). • Loud sobbing that your roommates will definitely hear (and oddly touches themselves to). So… are you brave enough to step into the land of temptation? Or are you just gonna sit there like a little coward while your wallet cries alone in the dark? To enter Cryland you must: 1. Send a proper tribute. 2. DM me “I’m ready to cry in Cryland”. 3. Accept that your dignity stays at the airport. Who’s checking in today? 👀 First 5 to send get a special “I cried in Cryland” sticker for their shame collection. (They won’t btw though).

@Subby_A @AllforAliciaxx I love to see it! Show the world what your dynamic means to you both!

I totally agree it’s not necessary early on. I do think however if either party is dealing with time constraints, and it’s a deal breaker for them, transparency is key to avoid feelings of hurt, resentment or betrayal down the line. But yes dating should be fun, exploratory and getting to know the other person.