Eth Star ✨ @ethethstar

5 years later… I signed out. 🎓 El-Roi did. 🙏🥹

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Cry, if you have to. For as long as you need to. Talk to friends. It makes it easier to actually move on. Talk to yourself too. Get very busy. Work, academics, get very busy. Explore new hobbies. Get yourself gifts. Make yourself happy. Read some new books or reread books or rewatch movies you love. Don’t block them, but you might delete their contact. Archive chats, mute status, delete pictures, videos, clear everything that attaches you to them. You will miss them terribly and everything will remind you of them, but over time, you will miss them less and life just goes on. You will feel the urge to call them to share special news but you won’t. Those hours you spend more time talking on the phone will come and you will miss them but you won’t call. They might even call you and you won’t answer. Gradually, but certainly, you will move on and they will become a distant memory from the past. You can journal about how you feel too. I think expressing your pain in writing helps a lot.

Bluey's Hub 🤍🌸 @Blluueeyy8

a week ago

How do you get over someone you once loved??

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Your man should naturally want to spend time with you, take you out, compliment you, and do nice things that make you feel special. you shouldn't have to teach him how to love or care for you. because if a man truly loves you, he'll show it without you asking. it will be seen in how he listens to you, how he remembers the little things you said, and how he makes time no matter how busy he is. he won't just say things, he'll prove it through actions. you won't have to question how he feels, because he'll make you feel safe and sure. the truth is, you don't need to remind a real man how to treat you right. when it's real, it comes naturally. the right man will know how to love you and will want to, all on his own.

​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph

7 months ago

Girl to girl

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Become a whole person yourself. Look at it this way - what you actually miss about them is who you are when they are there, who you believe they made you become or what they made you feel, who people see you as when you were with the person Or what you could do for them or who they are to you, the meaning you gave them. Meaning, you see a huge part of yourself in them, it's like a mirror that when taken away takes half of you away. That's not wholeness, that's dependence, enslavement, one that you created yourself. And that's in a way selfishness because notice the word that's common in that relationship, "You" , "Me", so it's not really about the person that you thought you loved wholly, it's about yourself that you can't find anymore. What I'm writing isn't about not loving people (I love people to death), it's about actually loving people for who they are, whilst being a whole person yourself, It's about loving out of abundance, not needs, wants or lack that you want to fill, it's about loving with mutual symbiosis, not parasitic dependency. All the ladies I've ever loved, I don't need to get over them (in the sense of what your tweet mean) because there's not a part of me with them or that I'm missing, I'm not all over their business anyways, I'm a whole person ready to give myself again without ever reducing, I love out of abundance seeking someone with same quality, not that I need someone to complete me, that creates power intoxication and slavery in a relationship.

Bluey's Hub 🤍🌸 @Blluueeyy8

a week ago

How do you get over someone you once loved??

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It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.😕

According to psychology, the way you react to conflict says more about your childhood than it does about your partner. If you shut down during arguments, you may have learned early on that your voice did not matter. If you explode, you may have learned that anger was the only way to be heard. If you apologize too quickly, you may have learned that peace was more important than your truth. These patterns are not weaknesses. They are survival strategies. They kept you safe when you were young. But they may be destroying your relationships now. Healing means unlearning the strategies that no longer serve you. It means learning to communicate not from fear, but from clarity. It means staying present when every instinct tells you to run or fight. That is the work. And it is the most important work you will ever do.

You have to learn the person you love. You cannot love someone into being who you need them to be. You cannot assume you know them just because you feel deeply for them. You have to study them. You have to understand their personality, their wounds, their attachment style, their triggers, their unspoken fears, their love language, the way they process pain and joy and conflict. I learned this the hard way, by loving people I never truly took the time to know. I projected my own expectations onto them. I assumed they thought like me, needed like me, loved like me. And when they did not meet my unspoken expectations, I blamed them instead of realizing that I never actually learned who they were. That lesson cost me relationships. It cost me misunderstandings that could have been avoided. It cost me the pain of being in love with a version of someone that never really existed. But it also taught me that love is not just a feeling. It is a study. It is a commitment to truly knowing the person you claim to love. Not the idea of them. Not the potential of them. But the real, complex, flawed, beautiful human being standing in front of you. And once you learn them, you can truly love them. Not as a projection. But as a person.

Oku @oku_yungx

a week ago

96. WHAT’S THE MOST EXPENSIVE LESSON LIFE HAS TAUGHT YOU?

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The older I get, the more I see why it’s important to only keep people around who have the same morals, manners, and sense of consideration as you. It’s not being picky, it’s protecting your peace. When you reach a certain stage in life, chaos and disrespect just aren’t entertaining anymore. You start craving calm, mutual respect, and people who move with the same kind of heart as you do.

After Hagar fled from Sarah for maltreating her out of jealousy, she went to the wilderness where God appeared to her and blessed her because the child she was carrying was a seed of Abraham. After God blessed her, she called him ‘El Roi’ - meaning, the God who sees me. Prior to that time, no one had ever seen her. Her only identity was Sarah’s hand maid. Sarah saw her as a maid. Abraham saw her as Sarah’s maid. People saw her as Sarah’s maid. But for the first time in her life, someone saw her. Someone saw her enough to bless her. That is also the very first time someone gave God a name - El Roi. I don’t know what you’re going through but I know many of you are at your lowest point and nobody sees you. I pray God sees you. El Roi ❤️

Sir Dickson @Wizarab10

2 weeks ago

El Roi Do you know how the name came about?

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TikTok is so fucking stupid for that profile view nonsense.

This is amazing!!! Wowwww I’d love to meet you Israel OLAYEMI. God bless you

Ifure Usen @real_Ifyarts

2 months ago

Some people are just too good 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾, hopefully @DunsinOyekan gets to see this. Israel Olayemi on TikTok

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@Abidoye_Zainab This is what I’m facing right now too. Mine begs and sends all forms of sweet messages today, insults the next and then come back after a week to apologize for insulting. I’m tired fr

THIS NEEDS TO BE PRAYED OUT LOUD: Father, I lay down every financial burden, every debt, every wrong decision, and every season of lack before You. I surrender every mistake I have made financially and every opportunity I lost through ignorance, fear, delay, or disobedience. Lord, by Your mercy, restore me. Rebuild every area of my finances that has been broken. Renew my mind concerning money, stewardship, and provision. Where there has been dryness, let there be abundance. Where there has been delay, let there be speed. Where there has been struggle, let there be divine help. Father, open doors no man can shut. Give me wisdom to create, manage, and multiply resources. Disconnect me from financial cycles of loss and frustration. I decree that lack will not define my future. I will not drown in debt. I will not live in fear concerning provision. Jehovah Jireh, arise and show Yourself strong in my life. Let restoration locate my finances, my business, my work, and my household. What took years to lose, restore by Your power. Give me grace to recover, rebuild, and rise again. In Jesus’ Mighty Name, Amen.

Another perfect day to clear up some common misconceptions. Listen: 1. You don't NEED antibiotics when you have a cold. 2. You CANNOT shift anybody's womb. You cannot even reach it. Don't be stupid. 3. Diabetes is NOT caused by adding too much sugar to your garri. 4. For the last time, Typhoid is NOT malaria and malaria is not Tyforce. Stop diagnosing yourself of typhoid everytime you are ill or have a fever or stomach upset. 5. Hypertension ISN'T caused just by too much thinking. 6. You CANNOT "flush" ur system of illness by "pissing all the sickness away". They LIED to you..6. Your body doesn't need daily supplements. Just eat normally and healthy. 7. You do not need a special kind of tea to flush your system. You are not a public toilet. 8. Putting spoon in a person's mouth during a convulsion will NOT stop ANY convulsion. 9. Taking "Hampicloss" after sexual intercourse will NOT protect you from sexually transmitted infections or pregnancy. 10. Stop the daily douching and stop washing your vaginas with antiseptics. You are only exposing yourself to infections. Oh... and this one is very important: Slimming tea CANNOT remove all that fat. It will only make you purge till you are dehydrated (if you are very religious with it) and land you in the accident and emergency of the nearest teaching hospital to you. Go to a Gym, work out and DIET! Pass it on if you care.

My younger sister just dropped a message in the family group chat.. explain how she is feeling and what she going through financially in her 400 level, and honestly, I know exactly how that feels. Growing up in a family where things weren’t always rosy is incredibly hard. I can’t even count how many times I felt depressed in school because things were so difficult, especially while working and schooling at the same time. I will try my best for her as a brother because life really isn't easy for anyone. If there is anyone who can help me support her on this journey, I would truly appreciate it. ❤️

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Ah! Some of you are scary sha. See foolish takes on top this ilebaye matter. Someone shared such a vulnerable moment and is seeking help and you are using it as tool for fan war and assuming different scenarios to blame the victim. Except that so called father and family can bring evidence that ilebaye killed someone, THERE IS NOTHING ELSE THAT CAN JUSTIFY SUCH LEVEL OF VIOLENCE ON A HUMAN BEING SO STFU.

I wanna build a relationship with someone who cares about why i've been quiet all day. not someone who gets mad cause i'm "acting different"

I want to build a relationship with someone who genuinely wants me, someone who’s ready for both the good days and the hard ones. Someone who understands that love alone isn’t enough, that consistency, effort, communication, and showing up for each other matter just as much. Someone who can put pride aside when it comes to us. I want someone who won’t punish me for what others did to them, someone I can be vulnerable with without the fear of being taken for granted. Someone who truly sees me, understands me, and feels like home. Someone we can both be each other’s safe space. I want a solid relationship built on emotional maturity, growth, patience, and intention. Someone who inspires me to be better while loving me gently. Someone who treats me like they’ve been praying to meet me for a long time. I don’t want something temporary or halfway. I want my person.

Fav ⛧ @Favwontmiss

3 months ago

I wanna build a relationship with someone who cares about why i've been quiet all day. not someone who gets mad cause i'm "acting different"

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unfortunately, i'm a girl who takes words to heart so yes, i remember every little thing you said and it stuck with me, whether it was good or bad..

after i graduate from uni i'll love to travel abroad to further my studies, i don't even mind starting again from scratch cause i haven't learnt any significant or meaningful thing all my 5 years of being in this nigerian university. just bills upon bills, nothing to show for it