ODILICHUKWU @kymsopascal

Dear young men, Especially those of you between the ages of 27-33 and are still single. This is how you know that you may have found your wife: 1. She's highly interested in what you do legitimately for a living, actively trying to encourage you to build your career or business, and always looking out for other opportunities for you. 2. If you live alone, she takes initiatives without being told by observing your home and trying to buy things she knows you need to live a better life in preparation for marriage. 3. She will hardly ask you for money, not because she doesn't need it, but because it's easy for her to get money from other men. And she knows that taking money from other men is an "invitation to treat", and can destroy her relationship with you. And she wouldn't want to make you feel that she's with you for your money, too. 4. When you give her money to do certain things, either for you or for her, she'll try to give you an account of how she spent the money. 5. She keeps boundaries with your friends and doesn't try to compare you with them. Rather, she would look out for that friend whom she observes has your best interests at heart, and encourage you to stay close to him. 6. She will not use sex as a weapon in the relationship, neither would she use it as a bargaining chip. 7. She actively gives you updates on how her day went, and she doesn't come to your house with her phone on silent mode or airplane mode. 8. She will try to abide by how you like her to dress, and she'll listen to you when you caution her about certain behavior that you do not like. 9. She'll actively want you to know her siblings and show interest in and respect for your siblings as well. 10. She'll not hold back if you ask her to lend you money, if she has it. But you, the man, must keep to your words when paying her back. 11. She'll bend many rules for you, but you should not take undue advantage of it. 12. She'll stress you sometimes, and test you in as many ways as possible. She's doing all that to see how well you can lead her, and how well you can control your emotions or anger. 13. She'll make mistakes. But you should use it as a teaching moment for her. If you don't judge her too harshly, she'll start to listen to you more. When you make a woman trust you with her vulnerability, she'll overlook some of your excesses. 14. She'll actively seek your validation and yours alone; whatever you say is good for her, she will accept it. And she won't care what the world says or feels about her. 15. She will not force you to be religious, but she will actively observe whether you respect God, because a man without God may not be a good leader. If you have a lady that can do at least 10 out of the 15, you may have found your wife. And remember, when you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny. End.

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As I was driving home this evening, I was tuned into Naija Info FM. They were discussing one's source of joy in marriage. Then listeners were calling in. Then I remembered one time, I was asking my lovely wife how she felt about me handling this page and coming here every day. This was way before I monetized my page. "Sweetie, I used to have a silent problem with it because I know how wicked people can be on social media. But after some time, I observed that you were getting some form of fulfillment from it. Especially when you tell me about how you were able to do this and that for people you do not even know. I concluded that you were happy doing it, and you still did not neglect our needs, and you are mostly at home as well. I also stopped complaining about your going out almost every evening to relax and have some beer. Even though I know that sometimes you go there to flirt with women, I just overlook it because you have been very careful not to bring shame or disrespect to us as your family. You have grown and learnt a lot from your mistakes. And you do not have most of your closest friends in the country anymore." Those were the exact words of my lovely wife. I sat down and thought about what she said for a while, and realized how truthful she was, and how open-minded she was towards expressing herself. She was right. I recall one time, I taught about the source of joy. And I did say that men should not make their wives or children their only source of joy. Because for women, they can hurt you deeply, and if she's your only source of joy, you may not have the courage to walk away when you should have. For the children, they will not always be with you. A time will come when they leave the house to be on their own. They will visit at intervals, but it will no longer be an everyday affair. I have also taken time to understand my wife's sources of joy aside from being a good wife, a good mother, and a homemaker. She derives joy from watching movies in her free time and listening to educational and health content. For that reason, I always make sure that there is no shortage of data in the home. Every married person needs to have a source of joy or fulfillment. You must find something that brings you special happiness when being married sometimes weighs you down. When you feel that you have given your all and you just want to run away, don't give up. When you feel that your efforts or sacrifices are not being reciprocated or appreciated, please understand that sometimes marriage can be overwhelming. You need to find something else to do to add extra value to your life, and by extension, to society at large. End.

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@GloriousGod01 Your dressing may contribute for her to assume such thought

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@jon_d_doe I'll apply this style for my kid sister

Women can never have scarcity of men. They can only have scarcity of husbands. Which is why before you decide to get married, please know that once you become a wife, that man may most likely be your only husband. You may never see another, if the marriage crashes. End.

Everywhere in court became unusually quiet. Even the judge kept adjusting his glasses in disbelief. Then out of curiosity, the judge suddenly asked: “Where is this woman? The wife who appears to be at the center of all these problems… is she in court?” Immediately, a woman quietly stood up from the back. My body literally went cold because nobody expected that. The judge looked at her for some seconds and then asked calmly: “Madam, where are you staying now?” And that was when the biggest shocker happened. The woman replied in Yoruba: “Mo ti pade si odo oko aro mi.” Meaning: “I have returned to my first husband.” Before the entire courtroom could even process what she said, the husband immediately nodded proudly and added: “Mo ti gba iyawo mi pade.” Meaning: “I have collected my wife back.” Omo… The way he said it ehn… like a man who had just recovered a stolen trophy after many years. The courtroom went completely silent. Even the judge was speechless for a moment. Lawyers were looking at each other. Court staff stopped moving. Everybody just froze because nobody expected that level of forgiveness after such humiliation and betrayal. As for me, my brain completely shut down. At that moment, the only thing I could think of doing was standing up to ask for an adjournment because sincerely… I did not even know what to say again. Till today, I still ask myself: Could you genuinely take back someone who abandoned you for your closest friend… only to return after everything fell apart? Or are some betrayals simply unforgivable? 🤔

@VikyInsights This is just a stepping stone weldone

Once a man has married you, he assumes that he married a virgin. Once a man has become your boyfriend, he assumes that he met you as a virgin. His mind has deliberately erased whatever sexual relationships you had in the past. Should he divorce you or break up with you, and you have gone ahead to sleep with other men (and he's aware), he will never go back to "default" settings. Do not go back to him, even if he is claiming that he still loves you or he's begging you to return. He'll not see you as the same even if he pretends to. Keep moving forward and don't look back. Except you too just miss his dick and you want to taste it again for old time sake. But as for relationship or going back to being his wife? Don't do it. End.

Peter Obi and Kwankwaso are not poor men. They don't need to use their money to bribe voters or give them bags of rice and garri. They should join funds together with all well-meaning Nigerians, and their party to: 1. Build a high tech central collation center and hire tech gurus to man it. 2. Pay volunteers and mobilization groups to cover for logistics. 3. Ensure that they have delegates in all 774 local governments (if possible) in Nigeria and all polling units who would live stream the results to the collation center. 4. Embark on massive grassroots awareness and campaigns across the country, especially in the remote areas of Nigeria. 5. Form an alliance with local and foreign media and alert them to any malpractices taking place. 6. Mobilize religious leaders to constantly campaign for them in the churches and mosques all over the country. The efforts would yield very good results. In my own little capacity, I am willing to donate N3m towards their campaign. Whether they win or not, I'll not regret it. End.

This is how my lovely wife and I practice our marriage. I don't know of any other marriage that would produce a better result than this one. You Gen Zs need proper mentorship and guidance. Your iberibe is too much. Someone will soon come under this to give AI comment. End.

“Frank Edoho had to call me himself and we spoke for about 30 minutes. A grown man like him almost cried because of the pain he was feeling from the media backlash. His wife cheated on him, he caught her the first time, she confessed, they settled it and moved on. She allegedly went back to the same person again. He started noticing signs, confronted her, but she refused to confess, and he decided he was done if she wasn’t going to tell the truth.” — Titi of Impact from Honest brunch podcast.

I was raised by my father and uncles. At 5am, my father will wake me up to go and wash his car and prepare the house. Time for farming, he will give me a cutlass to join him and my brothers in clearing the farm for harvest. My father speaks with his house. You don't stay out past 6pm. All my brothers know how to cook, but I cannot be in the house while they are cooking. You don't talk while my father is talking. He told me that no matter how angry you are with your husband, never keep him hungry and never starve him of sex. He said the power of a woman lies in her submissiveness and respect for her husband. My father told me not to marry a man whom I cannot respect or submit to his authority, a man I find difficult to listen to and obey. HeartMattaz

You see how Ugo has been posting his wins back to back while his ex-wife has been posting Chike? Well this goes to show you how stvpidd women can be.

Women will first test the level of a man's stupidity, foolishness in love and financial recklessness. Once she sees you are weak. You love and lead through your pocket, you don't have standards, and you are foolishly in love with her and you don't complain about whatever she does, she will mellow down, but if she sees that you are a no-nonsense man, she will name you toxic, insecure, and a narcissist. An average woman wants to be with a man she can manipulate in all ramifications. Women want an emotionally intelligent man, a man with standards, a man who knows what he wants until the man begins to show his standards and worth, they start calling him names just because he is not easy to be manipulated. HeartMattaz

The best you can do to a cheating wife is to part with her amicably (if she allows it). You co-parent with her amicably. You don't sleep with her anymore. You don't eat her food anymore. The audacity, right & privilege that your wife has, is because you have not caught her cheating. And she'll leverage on it as much as she can. Women do not stay where they're not benefiting. And they benefit more where their fidelity has not been called to question. Or at best, there are no significant threat to divorce them, even if the man is not fulfilling his obligations and responsibilities. The moment she knows that you have become aware that she has lost her shield, she will become angry. She'll know that the veil has fallen off your eyes. What does she do next? She'll start to recruit the children that she has for you towards hating you. She'll paint you bad and start to play the victim and attracting sympathy from the children. Because she expects that you would punish her and most likely end the marriage. But once you do not show the courage to act, and you're seeking for peace, you have given her the upper hand. She'll not only despise you, she'll cheat again and again. After all, she has committed the worst crime and you did nothing about it. The man she's cheating with will become her new man. The man can dictate to her when to sleep with you it not. What underwears she should wear and even what she should cook for you. It's that bad. Then imagine you going to beg that same man to leave your wife for you? She'll call you a "bitch ass nigga". End.

1. Study her mother. 2. Listen to what she's not saying more than what she's saying. 3. Study the behaviors of her friends. 4. Watch how she asks for money. 5. Study her online behavior. 6. Study how she dresses and how sensitive she's in exposing her body parts. 7. Watch what she says about her family and how she regards her father. 8. When you're with your friends, watch how she interacts with them and if she's always careless in talking. 9. If she is demanding that you to give her money for her mother. 10. If she comes to your house and takes your food home without asking you first. 11. If she's always begging your friends for money, or going to your neighbors to beg for something. 12. If she's always defending a woman that cheats or cheated and was caught. AJD.

Kizmann @realkizmann

2 months ago

@jon_d_doee Agba, how can a man identify a woman that has shame? At this point, it's a prerequisite for marriage

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