not so silly @sadputtysys

25 | a system of anarchy | I = we sadputty.carrd.co he/him Joined January 2021

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heartspocky @heartsalty

4 years ago

Everyone's pro mental health until forced to confront their own behavior. Then it's "bullying is actually okay sometimes", "they shouldn't have taken it so seriously", "it was just a joke"

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salem ⍳ void ☿ ⌜angelbear⌟ @tfempinkiepie

4 years ago

One of the most confusing anti polyamory takes I see is “it’s for people afraid of commitment” because polyamory more often than not entails *more commitments* with *more boundaries*

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Marvin Keilbach @MarvinKeilbach

4 years ago

@Theholisticpsyc Most of us have learned to be highly manipulative towards ourselves and others to survive as a social creature. To change this, we first must see all the ways we manipulate. Not others first - us first. It's not easy to be honest about our tricky patterns. But it allows healing

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Nate Postlethwait @nate_postlethwt

4 years ago

If you believe a traumatized person is still hurting because they haven’t forgiven, you don’t know jack shit about the nervous system, the human body and a toxic uneducated culture that lacks accountability for abusers while blaming hurt people for needing help.

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ADHD Jesse @adhdjesse

4 years ago

My brain seems to prefer stress over boredom, which makes my life make a lot more sense.

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Bitter Tea Tor @write_tor

4 years ago

because ‘don’t have sex’ isn’t the whole story, it’s ‘don’t have sex the way you want to, have sex the way we demand, have sex the way others want you to have sex, you don’t have the right to say -yes-, but you also don’t have the right to say -no-, bc your body isn’t yours’

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Bitter Tea Tor @write_tor

4 years ago

this is why I’ve always been hypercritical of the rhetoric that survivors sexuality is damaged either through being ‘sex repulsed’ or ‘hyper sexual.’ Sometimes ‘I will never have sex again’ -or- ‘I’m gonna fuck constantly’ are two sides of the same reclamation

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not so silly @sadputtysys

4 years ago

I will not be a warrior I am not a hero I just want, more than anything, to have peace & where I see that potential, I will pursue it - tenderly, persistently, genuinely

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not so silly @sadputtysys

4 years ago

working to actively soften myself realized forcing myself to mask was like trying to force a callous on an exposed nerve I am not ashamed of being sensitive which means removing the people from my life who use their words as weapons & their hearts as shields

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not so silly @sadputtysys

4 years ago

@goosetooths the primary color scheme is brilliant & works so well, I love how this whole spread looks!

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not so silly @sadputtysys

4 years ago

... recalculating...

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not so silly @sadputtysys

4 years ago

I tried to be so many things for so many people it was too much for just one person so I stopped being just one person

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Dr. Jen Wolkin | ADHD + Trauma Therapist @drjenwolkin

4 years ago

Children who learned to survive by staying small and not taking up space become the adults who people please at the expense of their own needs.

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ADHD Jesse @adhdjesse

4 years ago

Life with ADHD: "Sorry, this link has expired." "Sorry, that food has expired." "Sorry, your license has expired."

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George Watts @autgeek

4 years ago

Defining autistic wellbeing according to non autistic standards is like measuring if a cat is happy by looking at whether it's wagging its tail.

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Patrycja @jej_sen

4 years ago

art saves me again & again. in moments of aloneness and pain, it is music, poetry, photography, dance, all kinds of art that remind me we are so tender, stunning, foolish, terrified, gorgeous, capable, needy as in we need each other.