ℋ @salumsom

I don't usually involve myself in situations like this. I don't like meddling in other people's affairs, nor do I care much about other people's opinions of me. But this involves someone I love, and that's where I draw the line. I've also been running on very little sleep these past few days, so if I come across as blunt, so be it. I don't have the energy to carefully package my words anymore, especially when it feels like everything we say is interpreted in the worst possible way despite trying to approach you respectfully from the start. I've read your statement, and I only have a few things to say because I don't intend to keep going in circles. FIRST, you're still missing the point. From the very beginning, this was never about proving whether the anonymous entries were yours. Sais and I have both said that from the start. In fact, Sais publicly stated that he didn't believe those entries and only wanted one thing: for his name to be left out of the narrative. What hurt him wasn't the anonymous entries. It was everything that happened afterward. Despite repeatedly asking to be left out of it, his name kept finding its way back into statements, explanations, and conflicts that had nothing to do with him. There's also something in your statement that doesn't fully align with the screenshot of our conversation you presented. You said you didn't know Sais was "the someone." But the conversation shows that you already suspected it was him. You literally said, "I thought it was Sais." The only thing you didn't know was that he had already broken up. Those are two different statements. I'm not pointing that out to argue over wording. I'm pointing it out because if you're asking people to believe your explanation, then it should accurately reflect what the conversation actually shows.

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sais ⸝⸝ @stllframes

2 weeks ago

ᅠ I don't think it's fair to call me and my partner close-minded. I NEVER BLAMED YOU FOR THE ANONYMOUS ENTRIES THAT DRAGGED MY NAME INTO THE ISSUE. Even when the screenshot came out, I didn't spread it around or say things like, "I knew it was you." Like I said in my statement from the very beginning, I honestly didn't care whether the backstabbing allegations were true or not. All I wanted was for my name to be taken out of that narrative. I'VE NEVER USED YOUR NAME IN VAIN, AND NEITHER HAVE MY FRIENDS. (p.s can you guys also stop connecting other people and labelling them my friends just because there's a connection. I have friends and iilan lang sila and hindi sila yung sinisisi niyo sa entries.) I didn't care about your issues with other people. It only became my problem when your kuya repeatedly brought my name into it. At any point, you could have simply said that people were removed for personal reasons, but instead, my name kept getting mentioned—not once, not twice, but over and over again. I kept asking, over and over, for my name to be left out of your conflict. I even messaged your kuya personally because the way he worded everything made it seem like I was the reason behind all the anonymous entries and that you were simply getting dragged because of me. He refused to acknowledge that the wording was misleading. Your kuya used these phrases / sentences btw in case you weren't aware (but I doubt that): - "As long as we're still connected to Sais or to any of you, madadamay at madadamay ang mga tao." - "Kung meron pang anon na magda-drag kay Klauia o sa amin sa kahit anong related kay Sais..." You see how these statements imply that you're the one getting dragged because of me. Yes, your kuya explained his intention but let me just repeat what I said in my statement. My concern was never about questioning anyone's intentions; it was about the effect those words had and the narrative they unintentionally reinforced. Then your kuya called me rude just because I didn't accept your apology. Yes, you posted our conversation. Like I said in my statement, I was cold and dismissive, but I still listened to what you had to say. I didn't immediately accept your apology, but I also never thought badly of you because that's just not the kind of person I am. I quietly soft-blocked and eventually blocked you, and I never went around telling other people about what happened between us. I eventually stopped asking for explanations and stopped responding to your apologies because I had already decided to move on. I WASN'T BLAMING YOU. But every time the issue was brought back up, it reopened something I had already worked so hard to leave behind. I hope you understand that me refusing further explanations doesn't mean I believe the rumors. Sometimes people simply don't want to keep revisiting something—whether it's true or completely false—because they just want peace. If your statement was meant to defend yourself against whoever keeps anonymously sending entries about you, your family, or your band, then please leave my name out of it. That issue has been over for me for a long time. I've already found my peace with everything that happened. Like you said yourself, I'm not the person you're fighting with. So I genuinely don't understand why your statement included calling us close-minded. From my perspective, I was the one being attacked with labels and called names because an anonymous person apparently had an issue with you. It's difficult to understand why I'm being criticized for protecting my own peace after everything that happened. That's all I've been asking for from the beginning: PLEASE LEAVE MY NAME OUT OF YOUR ISSUES. ᅠ

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ℋ @salumsom

4 weeks ago

ㅤ ❨ helena ❩ in the twilight zone ❛ started my life in med school just this monday, that’s why i’ve been mia for quite some time. still trying to find my footing, but i’m excited for what’s ahead. i miss you guys already 🤧 ㅤ