Siddharth Tripathi / SidTree @sidtree

5 Point Explainer of this brilliant piece 1The shift from ordinary to exceptional — Society has quietly moved from honouring ordinary lives to demanding extraordinariness, making people feel inadequate for simply living decent, unremarkable lives. 2The rise of constant comparison — Unlike past generations who compared themselves locally, modern individuals compare themselves with curated highlight reels of billionaires, influencers, and celebrities, creating relentless pressure. 3The language of apology — People increasingly describe themselves as "just" an employee, "just" a teacher, or "just" a homemaker, revealing a culture that equates worth with visibility and status. 4The exhaustion of optimisation — Every dimension of life (career, friendships, hobbies, meals) must now be optimised and turned into content, leading to self-surveillance rather than genuine fulfilment. 5The forgotten value of "enough" — True happiness has always resided in ordinary things: dinner tables, friendships, consistency, and quiet responsibility. A society that cannot respect ordinary lives creates extraordinary anxiety.

Goodread 👍 If its difficult to read from image for anyone, here is the text and 5 point Explainer. 1/2 The future doesnt require people to dream smaller; it may simply require society to remember that a life needn't be extraordinary to be meaningful Once people aspired to raise decent families, do honest work, educate their children, and, perhaps, leave behind a little more than they inherited. Few felt compelled to become remarkable. The extraordinary existed, but it stood out precisely because society considered ordinary lives honourable. Somewhere along the way, that balance changed. Today, being exceptional no longer appears to be an aspiration. It often feels like a requirement. Children are expected to excel not merely in academics, but also in sports, music, coding, and communication. Young professionals are encouraged to become thought leaders before they have had the chance to become thoughtful people. Entrepreneurs are urged to build unicorns rather than durable businesses. Employees are advised to cultivate personal brands. Retirees are told that ageing itself must become a project. Even hobbies seem incomplete unless they evolve into side hustles or content channels. Without any public debate or formal announcement, society has quietly raised the minimum standard for feeling successful. The consequences are visible everywhere. Despite unprecedented prosperity, opportunities, and technological convenience, many people carry a lingering sense that they are somehow falling behind. Achievement has become increasingly accompanied by anxiety. Satisfaction appears strangely elusive. There is always another benchmark, another comparison, and another expectation waiting around the corner. Previous generations compared themselves with neighbours and colleagues. Their reference points were local and finite. The modern citizen inhabits an entirely different world. Through screens that never sleep, people compare themselves with billionaires, influencers, celebrities, founders, and carefully curated lives assembled for public consumption. It is difficult to feel adequate when one's competition consists not of reality but of highlight reels. The pressure begins early. Parents worry whether their children, even infants, are doing enough. Children absorb anxieties they do not yet understand. By the time adulthood arrives, many individuals have internalised the belief that average is synonymous with failure. Language itself offers clues about this shift. People increasingly describe themselves with a curious apology. They speak of being "just an employee", "just middle class", "just a teacher", and "just a homemaker". The word "just" carries an unintended confession. It reveals a culture that has come to associate worth with visibility, scale, and distinction. Yet, societies are sustained not by exceptional individuals alone. They are held together by millions of ordinary citizens, whose names rarely appear in headlines—teachers who shape minds; nurses who comfort strangers; shopkeepers who know their customers; public servants who perform thankless tasks; parents who sacrifice without the expectation of recognition; and people whose greatest achievements may never attract applause, but whose contributions quietly keep communities functioning. Civilisations have always depended upon these invisible foundations. Perhaps this explains why so many people feel exhausted. The burden is no longer merely to succeed; it is to stand out. Modern life encourages individuals to optimise every dimension of existence. Careers must provide wealth and purpose. Friendships must be meaningful. Vacations must become experiences. Meals must become photographs. Personal interests must become businesses. Happiness itself must become evidence. The result is not necessarily greater fulfilment. Often, it is relentless self-surveillance.

2/2 What makes this cultural shift particularly significant is that institutions increasingly mirror the same expectations. Schools celebrate toppers more visibly than perseverance. Companies reward visibility as much as substance. Cities compete to become world-class. Universities chase rankings. Nations aspire to become superpowers. In almost every sphere, the language of greatness has begun to overshadow the virtues of steadiness and continuity. Lost in this pursuit is an appreciation for the ordinary disciplines upon which enduring success has always rested. Families thrive because of routines rather than grand gestures. Businesses survive because of execution more than inspirations. Democracies depend less on moments of heroism and more on citizens performing unglamorous duties with consistency. Even trust itself is built gradually through repeated acts of reliability. Perhaps societies, like individuals, occasionally confuse prominence with importance. History celebrates spectacular achievements, but everyday life is sustained by quieter virtues, such as patience, responsibility, decency, and commitment. They rarely attract admiration, yet they remain civilisations invisible infrastructure. Ironically, many of history's most admired figures did not begin their journeys seeking fame or influence. They pursued excellence in their chosen paths. Recognition arrived later, sometimes accidentally. The obsession with extraordinariness is a distinctly modern phenomenon. Earlier generations understood something contemporary culture occasionally forgets—significance and visibility are not alike. Perhaps the real luxury in the twenty-first century is not excess, but enough. Enough achievement without constant comparison. Enough prosperity without endless appetite. Enough ambition without permanent dissatisfaction. Contentment has become strangely unfashionable. Ambition receives admiration, while satisfaction is mistaken for complacency. Yet, human beings were never designed to live in a perpetual state of inadequacy. A society that cannot respect ordinary lives risks creating extraordinary levels of anxiety. There is dignity in competence. There is grace in consistency. There is honour in responsibilities fulfilled without fanfare. Most human happiness has never resided in fame, followers or fortune. It has lived on dinner tables, in neighbourhoods, friendships, shared memories and lives that rarely make history books. For centuries, extraordinary people stood out because ordinary lives were considered worthy of respect. If exceptionalism becomes compulsory, its meaning eventually disappears. In trying to create a world filled with stars, society risks forgetting the importance of the sky that holds them together. Perhaps the future does not require people to dream smaller; it may simply require society to remember that a life need not be extraordinary to be meaningful. Sometimes, enough is not a compromise. Sometimes, enough is civilisations greatest achievement. *Dr Srinath Sridharan is a policy researcher and corporate adviser.

@viditb Congrats @viditb good work

@viditb Concept Clarity is very good. How old were you at that time

@viditb Lyrics are so good And film 👌

@viditb Very filmy 😇 Vaise Ek gaana hona chahiye end mein 😂

@viditb Meta Glasses Dulhe Raja Edition 😂

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In Indian tradition, Solah Shringar refers to the sixteen adornments of beauty. This poem asks what happens when prejudice quietly becomes the seventeenth - not hidden, but worn.

उन्हें सुंदर तरीके से मोड़ना, आकार देना, उन पर पॉलिश करना, और मनचाहे रंग भरकर उन्हें पहन लेना... पूर्वाग्रहों को इतनी शिद्दत से सहेजा गया कि वे आभूषण बन गए ये सत्रहवाँ शृंगार है चारों तरफ इसी की बहार है

@kepano @obsdmd One issue, if I set it to append to today’s note. Then it returns no daily note found. I need to create a daily note 1st then only I can save it. Can’t there be a provision to create a daily note if it is not created yet @kepano @obsdmd

@GabbbarSingh Ekdum sahi, ye feeling kiraye ke makanon mein bade hue logon ki bhi rahti hai, mohalle aur dost baar baar chhoot jaate hain

पौधे में काँटे हों तो क्या वो जीवन में चुभते हैं या काँटे वो कवच हैं जिनके घेरे में जीवन फूल सा खिलता है 🌸 जो फूल का सुरक्षाकर्मी है वो बधाई का पात्र है 🐦 जीवन की कक्षा का मेधावी दात्र है 🤍 — SidTree 😇

@GabbbarSingh we are 'siamese berths' abhishek 😇

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प्रीमियम तंदूरी एड्रेस --------------------- गर्मियों में कार ये अक्सर बताती है कि जिस शहर में रहते हो वो 50 डिग्री सेल्सियस की गर्मी के सामने.. कितना बेकार है। घरों में AC की शिफ्ट कभी खत्म ही नहीं होती, और बिजली चली जाए तो हमारे आशियाने.. तंदूर बन जाते हैं। हम कहते हैं AC काम नहीं कर रहा, लेकिन असलियत ये है कि हमारा शहर काम नहीं कर रहा ! हमने ऐसे शहर बनाए हैं जो गर्मी का मुक़ाबला करने के बजाए गर्मी का साथ देना शुरू कर देते हैं। सवाल है कि क्या हमारे बच्चे क्रमश: इन्हीं शहरों की भागदौड़ में भुनते रहेंगे ? लोग जिस विकास की उम्मीद में शहर आकर बसे, उसी विकास का माथा गर्म हो गया है, ये धक्के मारकर शहर से बाहर फेंक देगा एक दिन। हमारे इलाक़े में जिस ज़मीन को 25 साल पहले ग्रीन बेल्ट बताया गया था, वहाँ इन दिनों बिल्डर कॉन्क्रीट की गगनचुंबी इमारतें खड़ी कर रहे हैं.. वो भी एकदम फ्लैट से फ्लैट चिपका के... ऊंचे दाम और जीवन भर का लोन सिर पर लेकर भी प्रीमियम तंदूरी एड्रेस मिल रहा है... बालकनी से व्यू अच्छा है, पर गर्मी और लू असहनीय है... शहरों के विकास वाले मॉडल में ख़ाली जगह छोड़ने... हरियाली, जलाशय और कॉन्क्रीट का अनुपात ठीक करने और मैटीरियल साइंस का बेहतर इस्तेमाल करने की ज़रूरत है। नयी तरह के इंसुलेटिड मैटीरियल का इस्तेमाल घरों के निर्माण में होना चाहिए भारत में इंफ्रास्ट्रक्चर वाला विकास हर हाल में होगा, दुनिया के हर विकासशील देश में ये मॉडल तमाम सरकारों ने बेचा है, बस फर्क इस बात से पड़ता है कि ये निवेश कॉन्क्रीट वाले निर्जीव और खौलते हुए इन्फ्रास्ट्रक्चर में होगा या फिर ग्रीन इंफ्रास्ट्रक्चर पर ध्यान दिया जाएगा। >दो साल पहले आज ही के दिन लिखा था, कुछ खास बदला नहीं है 1/2

कुछ लिखा है... यह पढ़ना भी बशीर बद्र (Bashir Badr) को याद रखने का एक छोटा सा तरीक़ा है

Siddharth Tripathi / SidTree @sidtree

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Combination of Human vision and feelings backlinked is still far ahead. AI can construct what’s already seen. But the feel and memory linked with the moment is missing. You can’t generate once in a lifetime moment with AI and feel wow about it. Btw nice click, and your feeling linked with it is unique.