Cynthia @telu__

Aerospace Engineer ✈️. Agnostic. Good vibes all around. If you’re homophobic, don’t bother following. elfrique.com/vote/vote_cont… Birmingham, England Joined July 2014

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Nanya🌸💕 @Nany_aaa

3 days ago

“You’re what you consume” Tribalistic stoners when they realize they’re all Igbo:

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I know a number of people who didn’t marry their “spec” but are in the healthiest marriages I know. Their spec was typically whatever was culturally deemed to be at the apex of the attractiveness pyramid when they were growing up. For a lot of guys in my generation, it was the music video “vixens” from the late 90s/early 2000s Hip & R&B music videos with ‘coke bottle figures’ and or light skinned eurocentric features. When it’s time to find a partner for the very serious endeavor of sharing a life with, that “spec” is simply inadequate as a measure of compatibility and that’s understandable. The foolishness though is communicating it as though their partner somehow didn’t measure up to their “spec” instead of simply admitting that the idea of their spec was stupid all along and a young boy’s lack of wisdom of what makes a good life partner. Communicating publicly or even privately to your partner that they weren’t your spec to begin with may seem harmless, after-all you’re just being honest. But subconsciously, it’s an ego trip for you who “settled” and for your the partner, it’s a chip they will always carry on their shoulder that to you, they aren’t quite enough. They’re missing something you had always longed for, so much so that you still consider it to be your “spec”. It’s an unnecessary mind fuck and a cruel thing to say about somebody who is sharing a life with you. No matter how flowery you are with the compliments that come after. You’ve already knocked them down several pegs. If the point is to say your spec changed then talk about the stupidity of having a spec to begin with. Because I’ve never heard anyone in these situations talk about character attributes being their spec, it’s always superficial stuff. Or speak about how meeting your partner opened your eyes to what true beauty is. Speak in ways that elevate and affirm your partner.

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yimika| @yimikaaaa

6 days ago

i actually think "surface level" friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride or die. some friends are for the gym. some are for going out. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. those deep convos and connections are for the 2-3 people closest to you

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amore @aamoreteric

6 days ago

asked my friend what if i’m faking my ocd and i don’t actually have it and she was like “i don’t think you would consciously choose to act the way you act”

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Fav ⛧ @Favwontmiss

a week ago

Stop dating neurodivergent women if you refuse to understand how deeply inconsistency affects them. Mixed signals, emotional unpredictability, and changing expectations aren’t harmless they can be genuinely distressing. Empathy isn’t optional in a healthy relationship.

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Manny @Mr_Nkay

2 weeks ago

You see how educated people express themselves ?? So no to the olodo uprising

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Chuks @sammieirv007

2 weeks ago

That's me, man. I completed my Master's degree in applied mathematics on a fully funded scholarship and now work as a data analyst at an energy firm. Grateful to God!!

Rowland 🩺 @RowlandAkpan

2 weeks ago

What happened to the smartest student in your secondary school?

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Mofo @mofoAlternaria

2 weeks ago

infelizmente eu amo beber fumar e transar nunca vou me libertar dessas amarras

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telle @telleeetubby

2 weeks ago

POV: When i ask people who owe me money to pay me back..😭😭

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AM💁‍♀️👑 @_landam01

2 weeks ago

“He’s only using you for sex” omg me too, do you think I agreed to see him at 12 am to listen to his goals and dreams??😭😭😭

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MarioKINGS @GlobalPulse_50

2 weeks ago

God didn’t even blink during slavery, so y’all think he care that I SUCK DICK?

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bigkhing @bigkhing001

2 weeks ago

homophobia scare me because imagine being an amazing child, sibling, friend & none of it matters once they find out you're gay.

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𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy

2 weeks ago

i don't like a nigga with wandering eyes. Especially when you have me, now you're just being greedy. And that's a sin. Get tf out of my face.

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bigkhing @bigkhing001

3 weeks ago

So weird when a parent of a gay child is homophobic. U made a gay person. Ur literally the gay source. Ur the carrier of gay. Ur the gay factory

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moon bleached @pixiiemermaid

3 weeks ago

yearn 4 This

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Pere Egbi ✊🏾 @PereEgbi

3 weeks ago

Dear South Africa, it’s YOUR JOB to support your National team. We do not want to take that away from you too.

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Cynthia @telu__

3 weeks ago

@__kunta_ @omo_olobikan Pls I’m not answering before they join me in your dragging 💀🤣🤣

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Dodo @dodobabs_

3 weeks ago

It is possible to see people (and their ill intentions) for who they are without taking their actions personally. Unlocking this mindset changed my life forever.

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Cynthia @telu__

3 weeks ago

@Bubee_O Bubee doingssss…. So happy for you girl. Congratulations!!!! 🥹🥳🥳

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EdoQueen🌹 @EdoVibeQueen

4 weeks ago

The main reason some of you are so desperate to know the identity of Alex Ekubo’s wife is so you can monitor her every move not because you care about her. You want to know if she’s grieving “enough” by your standards. You want to keep tabs on what she posts, what she wears, where she goes, and who she’s seen with. Then, the moment she starts trying to live her life again, some of you will be the first to drag her and come up with the most bizarre takes imaginable. These days, everything is content, everything is gist, and everyone feels entitled to an opinion about things that have absolutely nothing to do with them. Nothing is allowed to be personal anymore. Nothing is sacred. Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is respect people’s boundaries.