I help average men in their 20s and 30s who are trying to figure out work, mindset, and what a good life actually looks like. No Guru or Life Coach BSyoutube.com/@NotesFromAver…Joined June 2026
Brother, do you feel like you're out of time?
At 22, I thought it was too late to finish college.
At 28, too late to move.
At 30, too late to start YouTube.
I was wrong every time. It's rarely too late to make a change.
@garyvee Life’s short. The small stuff won’t matter in the end. Why spend so much time worrying about it, especially if we can’t control it.
Grace is the best option.
@Gavel_on_X It can be a challenge.
I just pretend I’m talking to myself from 10 years ago. That’s the exact type of person my content is meant to serve.
@garyvee Simplicity in all things. Why complicate anything?
Humans motivations have remained the same for thousands of years. Technologies have changed but we still want the same things.
@Jaseemh@tferriss Sure, if this is what works for you, then go for it! Self awareness is important here. All of these options are acceptable. I’m just presenting an option that’s a bit different than just “set unrealistic goals”.
@brightafia I think social media has made it standard to be disrespectful in a disagreement because we don’t actually have to face the person anymore.
It’s a shame. You can learn a lot from a person you disagree with and vice verse.
I work in local government, and there are tons of positions hiring around the country.
The only problem, for many of them, you have to start from the bottom and work your way up.
This is what I did. With a Bachelors degree and 5 years of experience, I had to take a job cleaning toilets and picking up trash.
After 2 years, and 2 promotions, one of them being a lateral promotion. I’m doing something completely different making way more money. It sucked but it’s what I had to do. It sucks that these people can’t find work but the market changes and many of us have to adapt.
Additionally, in the now 7+ years of working in local government, I’ve never seen 1 person get laid off. I’m not saying it’s never happened but I’ve never heard of it.
You can buy the truck.
You can buy the watch.
You can buy the followers.
You can't buy a kid who runs to you instead of from you.
Half the men flexing online would get exposed in 10 minutes inside their own house.
Because the house doesn't lie.
Your kid knows:
• If your word means anything
• If you're safe when you're angry
• If you're present or just in the room
• If you actually care or just perform
You can fake the highlight reel.
You can't fake the way your kid's face changes when you walk in the door.
If they tense up, go quiet, or suddenly behave different around you, that's not respect.
That's fear.
And fear doesn't build men. It builds adults who either repeat your mistakes or spend years undoing them.
What would your kid say about you if no one was listening?
@flabbytofit99 Hearing “daddyyyyy” as my kid runs to the door as soon as I get home from work is the absolute best feeling.
I would give up almost everything else if it meant I got to keep that.
@ChrisWillx This also builds confidence especially if you handle it well.
It gives you something to draw upon in difficult situations.
You’re able to say “I got through that, I can get through this”.
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