Allison ~ Demonology Expert 🖤 @Ord_Snowflake

@_bitchsword Just another facile attempt by anxious people to try to control things and prevent pain/violation by scapegoating a group of people they find perverse...yep I think you have a point

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Allison ~ Demonology Expert 🖤 @Ord_Snowflake

3 days ago

@hallieinc O Arachne, grant me a fine woven blouse, one that covers my elasticized waistband instead of this fuckass shein cami

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Allison ~ Demonology Expert 🖤 @Ord_Snowflake

4 days ago

@hecubian_devil @berezina I don't think it's scale as much as the introduction of systems of governance/bureaucracy. Which becomes necessary at some scale, but that's exactly what is contested by anarchists

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Allison ~ Demonology Expert 🖤 @Ord_Snowflake

4 days ago

Working woman!

niki 🪱 @brxfastsolstice

5 days ago

Not trad , not girl boss , but a third thing

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Allison ~ Demonology Expert 🖤 @Ord_Snowflake

4 days ago

@sra3333 @MinModulation But now we can. I think evopsych tends to overestimate how ingrained our psychic structures are. Obviously the fear response itself is part of the structure of the brain, but the things that trigger it are highly culturally contingent. I feel no "ick" response to men crying.

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Allison ~ Demonology Expert 🖤 @Ord_Snowflake

4 days ago

@sra3333 @MinModulation It's not evolution. It's a result of teaching women they're not able to fend for themselves or survive without men. So when a man cries it feels like they lose that protection. This is not a problem for men and women who are whole people

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amelia elizalde @ameliaelizalde

4 days ago

replies INSANE unfortunately you still have to take risks even if you are sad/scared/broke/ugly/a woman. even if you have already been hurt very badly. arguably more so in that case. did anybody watch Sorry Baby

Variety @Variety

7 days ago

“I Want Your Sex” director Gregg Araki says he’s seen the reports of Gen Z having less sex -- and he thinks younger people will “regret” not taking chances and “risking getting hurt”: “I’m in my 60s now. You’re gonna turn around and you’re going to be 40, 50 like that. Will you

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Allison ~ Demonology Expert 🖤 @Ord_Snowflake

4 days ago

People get caught on the semantics of whether replacing a holistic experience with a virtual one is addiction. I don't know if we have language for that problem, but people see their loved ones detaching from reality for synthetic pleasure and understandably think addiction

Taylor Lorenz @TaylorLorenz

5 days ago

“Leftists” arguing that porn addiction and social media addiction is real… 🤦🏻‍♀️. U cannot be “addicted” to consuming media & communicating with friends (the primary way young ppl use social media). You cannot become addicted to porn!! @mikestabile does a great job calling this out

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Lakyn Thee Stylist @OgLakyn

5 days ago

I'm only pro-dress code in spaces that aren't compulsory to be in, but I do think the way you dress for certain environments can communicate the level of respect you have for said environment and the people in it. It shouldn't be enforced, but it should be part of the evaluation.

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lina | لينه @labushouk

6 days ago

youre allowed to outgrow thinkers that shaped your early forays into a field... that doesnt make them juvenile or any less complicated. it just means that their ideas have now become "common sense" to you in a way they werent before. dont foreclose on that possibility for others

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Allison ~ Demonology Expert 🖤 @Ord_Snowflake

5 days ago

Always interesting to to read essays from decades ago, discussing social changes that were fairly new to the author and their contemporaries but that we live in reaction to. Eg this one from Pauline Kael in contrast to modern male protagonists: newyorker.com/magazine/1976/…

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Allison ~ Demonology Expert 🖤 @Ord_Snowflake

5 days ago

@cynthiechoco Definitely, everything is downstream of women having the material power to live differently. The feminist project needs to reinvest itself in making sure there is always another choice for women

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Allison ~ Demonology Expert 🖤 @Ord_Snowflake

6 days ago

Also women loving men as individuals and not as provider/protector/father surrogates is not merely to benefit men. Women who love men need to love men as people for their own sake because in only loving men as a patriarchal role they fetishize their own subjugation.

Ghanaian Feminism @Ghaminism

a week ago

I’m so worried about the literacy of feminist theory because that bell hooks quote is NOT asking women to extend an olive branch nor is it asking women to love men in any shape It’s asking women to divest from patriarchal masculinity that upholds itself via racial capitalism

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Allison ~ Demonology Expert 🖤 @Ord_Snowflake

6 days ago

Women grow up desiring men for their patriarchal role because only a man placed on a pedestal could satisfy the kinds of lack instilled in them. As long as women look to men for this kind of love they will not be free