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We run an air purifier in our bedroom now too, separate from the monitors that track air quality in there. Started with the monitors just to see what we were dealing with, ended up adding the purifier once we saw the numbers.

@drgurner That's basically the same energy we've had for two years now, treating today like it's the actual chance instead of waiting for a better one. No skipped training days, we just show up even on the days we don't feel like it.

@theficouple That's part of why we started this in the first place. Two corporate jobs paying the bills while we build something on the side that's actually ours. Slow, but it's the only way we know to change that math.

Sophie competed in powerlifting for four years before switching to the longevity and Pilates approach she does now. Changing the actual training was the easy part. Letting go of being "the powerlifter" was what actually took time.

@SahilBloom No week without training in over two years, and almost none of it happened with anyone watching. Just us at the gym most nights, nobody cheering, nobody keeping score. That part never made it into a single post until it actually started adding up.

We moved our gym time 45 minutes earlier because dinner kept creeping toward 8pm and sleep was taking the hit. Didn't think it would matter much, but sleep actually got better within about a week.

Sardines on buttered toast was a weird snack my mom used to make when I was a kid, and somehow it's still in our rotation. Sophie was skeptical the first time, now she'll ask for it too. Cheap, fast, more protein than people expect from something that sounds like a joke.

@ChamberofFit Same for us with the Sunday shop, we only buy what's actually part of that week's meals so there's nothing extra sitting around to grab. Way easier than trying to white-knuckle past a full pantry.

@Budgetdog_ We're not there yet but every dollar going into the Roths and index funds each month is building toward exactly that. Not trying to get rich fast, just trying to have options nobody can take away later.

@SahilBloom Sophie's the clearest example of this I know. Four years deep into competitive powerlifting, then she rebuilt her entire approach around Pilates and longevity instead. Changing the system was easy. Letting go of who she'd been for four years was the actual hard part.

@edgaralandough No week with zero training in over two years for us, through the wedding, business launch, all of it. Nobody sees that part, they just see the highlight days. The boring stretch is what actually adds up.

dissolve my creatine in water a day or two ahead and just keep a jug of it in the fridge. Not that big of a deal, but skipping the daily mixing means I actually never miss a day. Sophie thinks it's overkill, I think it's just removing a reason to skip it.

Monday is plant watering day for us, ficus tree and the snake plant. Small thing but it's become one of those little markers that the week's actually starting. Sophie's better about not forgetting than I am.

Started lifting my sophomore year of high school because I was tired of being the small kid on the team. No big plan, just wanted to stop getting pushed around. Ten years later I'm still at it, just training with Sophie now instead of alone.

Both of us chug a glass or two of water the second we're up, before coffee, before anything else. Started as a random habit and just stuck. Doesn't feel like much in the moment but by the time we're actually moving for the day we're already ahead instead of starting dehydrated.

@CoachDanGo Sophie's had the same breakfast every single morning for as long as I've known her, scrambled eggs with soy sauce and rice, zero variation. Never once complained about it being repetitive, she just eats it and moves on with her day.

@drgurner This tracks with why we started the business honestly. Wanted a side project built around stuff we were already doing, didn't expect it to turn into figuring out an entire audience exists for any of it. Never would've found that out without just starting.

Sophie signed up for her first quarter marathon a few weeks ago, it's about 2 weeks out now. Four years of powerlifting and she'd never run more than a mile straight before this. Starting from scratch on pace and breathing, and I'm trying hard not to give unsolicited advice.

Sophie's cut my hair since we started dating, not one barber visit since. Started as a way to save money but she's gotten legitimately good at it, better than the last few guys I paid for. Saves us close to $700 a year at this point and it's just normal for us now, not even a money thing anymore.

We're nowhere near that income level and still automate over 20% of take home into retirement and index funds every month, off the top before we see what's left. We're still a couple months out from being fully clear of wedding costs, but we never paused that 20% to get there, kept it running the entire time.